What is a Pro Domme?
A Pro Domme, short for professional Dominatrix, is a skilled professional who engages in consensual BDSM activities and exchanges their services for monetary compensation. They provide a range of services such as domination, humiliation, discipline, sensual touch, chakra alignment, training, role-playing, psychological play, aftercare etc.
What is BDSM?
The initialism BDSM stands for Bondage & Discipline, Dominance & Submission,and Sadism & Masochism. It refers to a variety of consensual erotic and sexual practices or activities that involve the exchange of power and control between individuals. These activities are often characterized by elements of dominance and submission, with one partner taking on a dominant role and the other a submissive role. Here is a brief overview of the components of BDSM:
Bondage: This involves restraining a person's movement using restraints, such as ropes, cuffs, or other devices. It can be done for aesthetic, sensory, or psychological reasons.
Discipline: Discipline in BDSM refers to the use of rules and punishments to shape behavior. This can involve spanking, flogging, or other forms of physical or psychological discipline.
Dominance and Submission: These elements involve one person taking on a dominant role (the "dominant" or "top") while the other takes on a submissive role (the "submissive" or "bottom"). This exchange of power can involve various activities and scenarios, with the submissive willingly relinquishing control to the dominant partner.
Remember that BDSM should always be consensual, safe, sane, and based on open communication and trust between all parties involved.
Sadism: Sadism involves deriving pleasure from inflicting pain, both physical and psychological, on a willing partner. This is usually consensual and within agreed-upon limits.
Masochism: Masochism involves deriving pleasure from receiving pain or humiliation. Like sadism, it is consensual and within predetermined boundaries.
It's important to note that BDSM activities are always based on consent and negotiation between all involved parties. Safety and communication are paramount in BDSM relationships, and participants often establish "safe words" to signal when they want a scene to stop. Many people find BDSM to be a fulfilling and enjoyable way to explore their desires, boundaries, and fantasies while emphasizing trust and communication with their partners. However, it's essential to engage in these activities responsibly, with informed consent, and with a thorough understanding of the risks and how to mitigate them.
What is Rope Art or Shibari?
Rope art, also commonly referred to as Shibari or Kinbaku in the mainstream, is the practice of erotic Japanese rope bondage. Rope is used to create intricate and beautiful patterns on the body, emphasizing both aesthetics and immobilization. Rope artists often combine skillful and artful tying techniques with the exploration of power dynamics and sensual commmunication.
Are you discreet?
Queen SanTana is extremely discreet, as the nature of this business is a sensitive one which requires vulnerability from my clients. I greatly respect and cherish that vulnerability and willingness to surrender. What happens with me stays with me. Bank statements show as "Professional Services" when paying electronically through this website. You are required to sign waivers before every domination and bondage session.
What is a Tribute?
A tribute typically refers to an offering, or act of devotion that is made to honor or pay homage to a dominatrix, domme, domina, goddess, Queen etc.
Often referred to as a "dominatrix tribute" this is a financial offering made by a submissive or a client to a dominatrix, who is a professional in BDSM. This tribute is typically a form of financial compensation for the dominatrix's time, expertise, and the services provided during a BDSM session or arrangement.
The specific terms and expectations surrounding tributes can vary widely depending on the individual dominatrix and her clients. It may be a one-time payment for a single session or an ongoing financial arrangement for a longer-term BDSM relationship. Some Dommes require tributes as a way to demonstrate the submissive's commitment and devotion to the dominatrix, while others may use it as a way to cover the costs associated with their services.
How do I find a reputable Pro Domme?
When searching for a reputable Pro Domme, it is essential to do your research. Look for Dommes who have a proven track record of SAFETY, experience and expertise in their field. Seek references, read reviews, and engage in thorough discussions about your interests, limits, and expectations before entering into any session or arrangement. Make sure your desires and capacity match those of the Domme and that you are compatible with each other. Vetting is a two-way street.
Do you accept virtual submission?
Virtual submission is accepted for those who want to explore providing service to me under virtual or long distance guidelines. Vetting and references required.
Do you work with couples?
Yes, I love topping and sensually engaging with couples! It is a labor of love to be a conduit for that kind of intimacy and pleasure between two souls. No SURPRISE sessions allowed, as in all parties involved must be aware of what is to come and be able to consent to my presence. Honesty & trust are big proponents of couple or individual sessions.
Is nudity or penetration allowed in a domination session?
Partial nudity on your part is allowed. If you are requesting intimate services when my bare tools are touching your genital areas, you are required to cover the fee to purchase tools just for you. I will never be nude for sessions, and you may not request such privileges.
If you want to be penetrated in some way that can be negotiated with a mandatory $350 fee, otherwise, do not ask.
Do you offer Professional Submissive services?
As a Professional Switch (someone who engages in BDSM activities as a Dominant & Submissive), professional submissive services can be available. Types of play and activities I enjoy as a submissive include: rope bondage, impact, bar service, event service, wax play, sensation play, psychological play. Please specify to me directly if you looking for this type of service.
What are hard/soft limits in BDSM?
In BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, and Masochism), hard and soft limits are terms used to define and communicate the boundaries and limits of activities and actions that participants are willing to engage in or are not willing to engage in during a BDSM scene or relationship. These limits are crucial for ensuring that all parties involved have a safe and consensual experience.
Hard Limits:
Hard limits are the activities or actions that a person is absolutely not willing to participate in under any circumstances. These are non-negotiable boundaries that should always be respected. Common hard limits can include activities such as non-consensual or extreme violence, activities involving bodily harm or permanent injury, and specific actions that an individual may find psychologically or emotionally distressing.
It's essential for all participants to clearly communicate and respect each other's hard limits to ensure a safe and consensual experience.
Soft Limits:
Soft limits are activities or actions that a person may be hesitant about or unsure of but is open to exploring under specific conditions or with the right partner, time, or context.These limits are subject to negotiation and discussion, and they can change over time as trust and comfort grow between participants.
It's crucial for those involved in BDSM to have open and ongoing communication about soft limits. Consent should always be explicit and enthusiastic.
What are your hard limits?
My blanket hard limits, as either a Dominant or Submissive: scat, spit, race play, blood, extreme violence.
What are your soft limits?
Blood (yours), bruises, watersports, blood (bruises).